If we can not love the person we see, how we can love God we can't see. Its a peculiar world where we believe in a paradoxical axiom
"SAAMNE JO BHI HAI, HUM USKO BURA KAHTEN HAIN
JISKO DEKHA HI NAHIN , USKO KHUDA KAHTE HAIN"
And thus life keeps dragging,galloping, sleeping, trailing,or flourishing happily based on the trust you have in yourself and thus finally in GOD,the almighty. I am sure all of us have to understand one basic fact in life that Love is one emotion which has the true basis of the evidence that there is soul. We actually are all potentially divine souls but we keep ourselves limited to only BODIES. As soon as you feel that we are all the children and creation of the FATHER CREATOR ,we start understanding the view point of the other person. I always took inspirations from songs,poetries and thoughts of WISDOM but not the physical beings of any body.
I am reminded of few lines of an excelelnt song :
"YEH BHOG BHI EK TAPASYA HAI, TUM TYAG KE MARE KYA JANO
APMAAN RACHAIYTA KA HOGA , RACHNA KO AGAR THUKRAOGE"
When you love someone, you have divine feelings and a time comes when gradually you start loving more and more people than you ?hate....you start understanding. I have seen and experienced this with my children ...KEEP UNDERSTANDING THEM AND LOVING THEM ALL THE TIME. BECAUSE THEY ARE YOUR MIRRORS. We actually do not understand their gestures and expressions. I am reminded of atrain journey when Bobby and me both were travelling and going to attend some common anti tobacco program at New Delhi. Due to some mistake we had only one berth available in three tier slleper class and it was an extra ordinary chilly and windy cold night of January. He had one lower berth, but by the time I was trying to negotiate for two or one berth in A/C class , some middle aged lady requested him to go on upper berth and he readily did it...Ultimately me and Bobby slept on one berth and had no beddings or woolens because we were sure of A/C class. He was always fond of puuting on Shawl and no sweater. Whole night we were on one berth and all the time he was trying that I remained covered with the shawl and I was trying he remained. AUR Mohabbat ki woh shawl kya kar rahi thi...aaaap jantey hain....WOH ROOHANI MOHABBAT KA EK BOND bana rahi thi , jo puri raat bynta raha, woh ek aiesi raat thi, ki main sochta raha....KI YEH RAAT KABHI KHATMA NA HO.......Yar yeh sirf aihsaas hai, rooh se mehsoos karo, Pyar ko pyar hi rahno do ,koi naam na do.
Children are like kites, they keep flying high and in their heights they become distant and you keep loving them anyway. Every body will be eager to have his children in near range. Every one was speculating that my daughter after Mch in Surgical Endocrinology will join my own parent institution but she never even applied , while posts were vacant. I am grateful to God and to my daughter for making me proud that she never applied here and reached to a place , famous as CITY WHICH HEALS, and that too at the best centre of loving care and excelelnt surgery.
Dard to hota hi hai, yaad to aati hi hai, kintu SHIPS ARE SAFEST IN THE HANGERS WHILE THEY ARE MENT TO FIGHT AND WIN THE LAMBLASTING OCEANIC WAVES.
Rightly said "JINH PREM KIYO, TIN HI PRABHU PAYO"
Even Kabir said
"POTHI PARH PARH JAG MUWA
PANDIT BHAYA NA KOYE
DHAI AKHAR PREM KA
PARHE SO PANDIT HOYE"
But never expect love from a person whom you are loving. Most probably he will not love you, but God will send someone who will love you instead much more than you can imagine. Dear friends always keep distributing whatever you want. If you want respect- give it, love you- give it, authority - give it, happiness- give it and ultimately whatever you give to the world, it will come back.
Never get disturbed when you keep distributing love.affections, protection and everyting to someone and he becomes almost your worst critic or enemy, thsi is also a common problem. Most often yeh SUPATRA NAHIN THA,PAR AAPNEY JO KIYA WOH DAL DARIYA MEN...Never get frustrated on this issue and keep doing the same but try to be more selective in SUPATRA SELECTION.
Today I will interrupt here and will write again but will leave some beautiful quotes for you...
"ik farze mohabbat ka adna sa fasana hai
simte to dile ashiq , phiale to Zama na hai"
HOGA TERI MEHFIL MEN KOI AUR BHI JALWA
MUJHKO TO HAR IK ORE MOHABBAT HI NAZAR AYE....